Sunan at-Tirmithiy كتاب الصوم باب ما جاء فى مباشرة الصائم
حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادٌ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ وَالأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُقَبِّلُ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ. قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ. وَأَبُو مَيْسَرَةَ اسْمُهُ عَمْرُو بْنُ شُرَحْبِيلَ. وَمَعْنَى لإِرْبِهِ لِنَفْسِهِ.
Āishah said, "The messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, used to kiss and fondle his wives while fasting, and he was the most capable among men of controlling his desire."(1)
1) This means that the physical contact did not lead to anything that breaks the fast. Other men may not have such control over their desire.
