Sunan at-Tirmithiy كتاب الطلاق واللعان
Sālem's father narrated that he had divorced his wife during her menstrual period. ‘Umar asked the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, about that and he replied, "Order him to take her back, then divorce her when she is clean (from the menstrual discharge) or (otherwise) pregnant (1)." Footnotes: (1) Menstruation and the period of puerperal discharge are times when marital relationships are temporarily paused. The potential nervous tension and sexual frustration could result in rushed divorces. Click on ḥadīth to read more
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, “Three matters to be taken seriously whether in earnest or in jest: marriage, divorce, and taking back a wife (after a divorce that is not final).”(1) Footnotes: 1- The purpose of this is to affirm the seriousness of the three issues mentioned in the ḥadīth. If all people were to treat these matters lightly and undertake them in jest, the rulings set by Allah regarding them would be nullified. Thus, it does not matter if a person says, "I was only joking," as he will be accountable for the ensuing effects of what he has uttered in this regard. In such cases, the rulings concerning marriage or divorce or taking back a wife will be valid and effective. Scholars have agreed that if a person divorces his wife jokingly, then his divorce is considered valid. Click on ḥadīth to read more
Ar-Rubayyi' Bint-Mu'awwith Ibn-'Afrā' initiated her divorce (1) during the time of the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, so he ordered her - or she was ordered (2) - to observe one menstruation as a prescribed period. (3). Footnotes: (1): (khul') Divorce at the instance of the wife, who has to give a compensation to her husband. (2): One of the narrators was uncertain whether it was the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, who ordered her or someone else. Another narration indicates that it was 'Uthmān who ordered her, and that in doing so he was merely following the judgment which the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, had given in another similar case. (3): The waiting period prescribed by Islamic law for a newly widowed or divorced woman, during which she may not remarry. Click on ḥadīth to read more
Same as above. (1) Footnote: (1): Unlike the one above, this narration of the ḥadīth was not reported on the authority of 'Ā'ishah Bint-Abī-Bakr, and is considered more authentic. Click on ḥadīth to read more
Subay'ah gave birth twenty-three or twenty-five days after her husband's death. So after purifying herself at the end of her post-partum bleeding period, she adorned herself for marriage suitors. Her action was met with disapproval, so the matter was referred to the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, who said, "If she does so, her prescribed period did pass." (1) Footnotes: (1): This is an indication that the waiting period of a pregnant woman (i.e. before being able to remarry after her husband passes away), is until she gives birth, and this is the view of most of the scholars. Click on ḥadīth to read more